The tantric man differs in his approach to life and relationships from the uninitiated man in many ways that make him and his lover grow happier and spiritually evolve faster. The Ignorant man is full of superficial ideas about life, constantly having the impression that he knows a great deal about almost anything. He runs from one woman to another and from one relationship to another, only looking for easy and selfish pleasures. The Initiate man has high ideals to which he dedicates most of his thoughts and aspirations. He engages profoundly and consciously in spiritual relationships, aiming to make his lover happy.
The soul in its depth is Silence. The peace of the mind is Silence. Atman (The Supreme Self) is Silence. Silence belongs to God, the one perpetually mysterious, essential language. Silence is the deep language of the heart, and because of this, it is the true language of the wise, because, first of all, quietness represents an immense power, and living proof of God’s true eloquence. Profoundly acknowledged silence is God. Therefore, it is the ultimate substratum or the essence of this body, of prana, and of the mind. Silence is the background where the entire universe of senses is projected. It is an esoteric reality.
The word resonance is related to the Latin resonare, which means “to resound”, “to repeat a sound”, or, in other words, to vibrate. In the Tantra & yoga practice, resonance is a process of initiating and amplifying vibratory phenomena, consciously perceived in the being, produced under the action of the vibrations (energies) coming from certain specific levels of manifestation of the universe. Resonance occurs only when the frequency of vibration is close or coincides with one of the frequencies with which the yogi’s inner universe is capable of vibrating in unison, as long as this process is maintained with grace and attention.
When we want to reawaken within ourselves the latent spiritual powers that have been dormant along many years of stagnation, we must make efforts. We will not trigger any beneficial force and we will not transform any aspect of our being if we remain passive. Inertia leads to nowhere and it does not open any door. We can defeat it only by will power. We must focus our mind forces, we must meditate, practice adequate yoga techniques and remember that this path of evolution gives us the best methods to conquer the inertia of the mind and heart
The human being can come close to and can enter into a deep spiritual communion with GOD the FATHER in any moment, through any type of beneficial activity, indifferent of its nature, if that human being consecrates that specific action (which is fundamentally good) to God the Father, as well as its fruits. In order to make a consecration to God the Father it is first necessary that the human being has an intense inner state of spiritual opening and humility. This spiritual attitude is in fact a fundamental key in any kind of inner spiritual practice.
The foundation of any authentic spiritual practice is and always remains love, without exception. The great secret of love is that in order to be loved, intensely and profoundly, we first have to love intensely and profoundly. Few know that always and without exception, this saying has universal value. When the hand of a man who loves intensely, profoundly and without measure, touches the hand of a woman who loves intensely, profoundly and without measure, in that privileged moment the two human beings touch the mysterious heart of eternity in unison.
Even for the uninitiated ones, the feminine side of the human being has a unique resonance with the poetical feeling. For the human beings who aspire to find out their soul mate, this passionate search aims, ultimately, to the discovery of the other opposite half which we feel is missing. In reality, this search shows the unconscious desire to reach the androgynous state. In the manifested sphere, some people feel, and others even intuitively perceive that, beyond the binary rhythm plus-minus, yang-yin, solar-lunar, masculine-feminine, lays the mysterious unknown and the infinite or, in other words, GOD THE FATHER, who works uninterruptedly.
Nowadays, the ‘model women’ on billboards promoted by the fashion industry tend to be very skinny. Is there a relationship between personal happiness and health with our body shape? One of the most acknowledged scientists in the world recently developed a theory stating that people that are ‘filled out’, volumptous and fit are much happier than thin people. James Watson, specialist in genetics and awarded with the Nobel Prize (being one of the scientists who discovered the spiral DNA structure), flatly considers that women with curvy, vital bodies enjoy an intense sexual life more than thinner women and are, generally speaking, happier.
To know a woman is a trip to the unknown, a challenge of creation, a genuine spiritual path that starts from the finite and ends in the infinite. This stairway to the essence of the woman is built from the stairs of the physical, psychical, mental and spiritual knowledge, and melts in the ecstasy of the complete mergence with the eternal feminine. In Tantra, we recognise the rediscovery of the mystery of the woman. In her we see the manifestation of the Universal Divine Feminine – Shakti. A woman who activates at maximum her ‘state of shakti’ has all chakras harmoniously activated, manifests a powerful vitality, sensuality, spiritual force, pure love, intuition, refinement, intelligence, wisdom and surrendering to the divine will. For women in general, the awakening of the state of Shakti is a sign of a real evolution.
Authentic Tantra represents a spiritual path during which the state of exaltation of the woman occupies an extremely important position. Through this approach, the woman is truly empowered to manifest like a goddess, with a remarkable creative potential, capable to bestow grace. A look, a smile, a gesture, the state of playfulness, the complete satisfaction – these are only a few of the ways which the divine spirit of the inner woman, once awakened, can be used to initiate the man in the spiritual mysteries. When the goddess of the inner woman is one with her god, everything becomes possible.